The Baby Mama

Since when is dropping a money order in the mail equivalent to parenting?

Contributing financially to the care of your child is definitely a part of being a parent. But it is a small part. And one shouldn't expect any explause for it. Sending me a "how is she doing" text message every few days and coming to see her every now and then when you are bored or didn't make plans with your girlfriend makes you nothing more than a sperm donor in my eyes. And to send me money to buy her a Christmas gift from you is quite sad when you have no reason why you can't do it yourself. It says you are incapable of spending more than 5 minutes thinking about her. A parent would be proud to take the time picking out a special gift for their child. You have no idea what it takes to be a parent -and have shown you don't have the time to find out - so please don't refer to yourself as one.

Sooo....let me get this straight...

...you have changed your mind about having your daughter with you for Christmas because you have decided to go out of town with your girlfriend instead? You want to spend the holiday getting to know your gf's family when your own daughter barely knows you? Just checking. At least you have your priorities in order! What a LAME! But its all good - I will be so happy having her with me for Christmas anyway. Your loss.

Child support

Somebody please tell me why this FOOL who already doesn't pay his child support on a regular basis would fix his mouth to ask me if he could pay off some bills first before he starts helping out with his child like he should. Huh?! And I'm not talking about rent or basic utilities...I'm talking about stuff like bank loans and other random debt he has accumulated. Again, huh?! (Some background info: he is trying to get some bills out of the way so he and his new gf can purchase a house. Really. I'm not making this stuff up. Lol) Do I have the option of putting my child's needs on hold while I "pay off some bills"?! I must be in the twilight zone. This is why some men MUST be dealt with through the court system. I have more to say on this later but for now I must get some sleep. This blogging thing is therapeutic...glad I started doing it. Maybe it'll keep me from ending up on the news and in prison. Lol