Child support

Somebody please tell me why this FOOL who already doesn't pay his child support on a regular basis would fix his mouth to ask me if he could pay off some bills first before he starts helping out with his child like he should. Huh?! And I'm not talking about rent or basic utilities...I'm talking about stuff like bank loans and other random debt he has accumulated. Again, huh?! (Some background info: he is trying to get some bills out of the way so he and his new gf can purchase a house. Really. I'm not making this stuff up. Lol) Do I have the option of putting my child's needs on hold while I "pay off some bills"?! I must be in the twilight zone. This is why some men MUST be dealt with through the court system. I have more to say on this later but for now I must get some sleep. This blogging thing is therapeutic...glad I started doing it. Maybe it'll keep me from ending up on the news and in prison. Lol